Lifestyle design

I felt very tired today. Too attached to my work, the results of my clients, my computer, and the idea that if I walked away from everything for a while, I will lose my business. Okay, so a bit crazy, but honestly not too far from the truth. I can not make yourself crazy with the best of them.

So I looked at the clock on my screen and saw a good bit of free time on my calendar. I thought about all I could do, but too hard felt. So I took my keys and got in the car and directed the film. I went to see done with love, Aaron Eckhart and Jennifer Anniston. The movie was not so great - clichés, predictable and obvious, but it has been worth all the clothes of Jennifer and to see Aaron.

In the movie the main character in a book about the ads for the loss of a loved one has written. He is a force, burning coals, and all those who help themselves to leading workshops, people over their loss journeys.

But he is a bloody mess. He tells them what he can not. He is not telling the truth about their own history and their own loss, but he is handing out all day. You can see him totally lose control and stressed, and his name was called, and he stormed into the room with a big old smile, high-fiving everyone and do all the rah rah game. It feels good for you, think about how tiring for him to lie. And what is more important, you see the potential that is never satisfied until he is ready, if what is really happening in their own lives to be honest. Okay, I leave I always have a bit carried away, but you get the point.

So I started thinking about myself and stumbled over the issue, I was not completely honest in my own life? Is my company a show? I just wear the mask that hides, or my soul and the person really in line?

Not always an easy answer that I have to say. In fact, if you had asked me a few years ago I would have on the ground as two sides of me had fallen out is enormous. Today, thankfully, feels pretty accurate. I'm pretty out there with who I am, and 99% of the time I have a "Take Me or Leave Me," kind of feelings, but there are those moments when I fell back in my mind, like real life, as well as I think it is, can simply not good enough for others. Crazy do not you?

So it was no accident, so when I got home it was in my inbox the latest articles from my most respected mentors Caroline Myss. I stared at the page is this quote ...

"The truth is the actual make-maker of human experience precisely because, the longest journey we will ever go in life is a journey into a comfort zone with the power of truth that the truth .... even reach them in a congruent person. It forces your heart, your mind, your will and your soul for a full alignment, and from that moment, you have no choice but to admit that you know exactly what you feel. And if you know what you know, you have no choice, in line with your skills and emotions. An act of personal betrayal or an act that betrays the other not, is a document that you can forgive because of fear. They see only too clearly that you are afraid that an excuse. The congruent person is nowhere to hide. "

When Caroline expressed in their articles and what I experienced in my work with people in the past 20 years, is as much of the internal suffering of people feel they do not live their truth. You deny what came before, who they were, who they are and who they are "working to become." In this space, they can not live up to intense scrutiny and still wonder why they feel so out of balance.

Our truth is not just that we seem to be our personality. That is what is in our thoughts, our bodies and what is true on a deeper level than we ever know. It will not be finished in the basement without a fight. If we pretend to be a way because we think it is more attractive, we will tell you more money, or just cool anymore, but it is not really to be seen, and we can not be nearly as effective as if we just let your soul.

But you know, you know, to feel it, and you know when you are your soul and personality in battle. Today's post is just to remind them not to end up like Aaron Eckhart in the film. Do not be afraid, just be yourself and tell the truth, that you missed your chance to be really good.